18 APRIL 1992, Page 26

Talking to God

Sir: While reluctant to contradict a fellow American in the correspondence columns of a foreign publication (Letters, 4 April), Robert Brenton Betts is in error when he says that in the quatrain about Boston it is the Lodges rather than the Lowells ('who- ever they may be') who speak only to the 'Going . . . going . . . lost.' Cabots, who, in turn, speak only to God.

The social pre-eminence of the two fami- lies (at least in Boston) is so legendary that a brash young man was prompted to ask Godfrey Lowell Cabot, a patriarch with a well-earned reputation for irascibility, how it felt to be both a Lowell and a Cabot in Boston. After an ominous silence he said, 'I'm afraid that's a pretty silly question, Mr Cabot."Young man,' roared Mr Cabot, 'it's the damnedest silliest question I've been asked in 80 years.'

Frank A. Kelly, Jr

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Newington, CT 06111, USA