19 APRIL 2008, Page 79

Q. May I pass on an additional idea to that

of sending a copy of the address given at the funeral or memorial service when responding to a letter of condolence. A friend of mine recently responded by sending a postcard-style photograph of his very distinguished father who was dressed in full uniform, with a brief but appropriate note on the back.

C.P., London SW11 A. Thank you for sending in this useful tip.

On many occasions photographs speak louder than words.