19 MAY 2007, Page 71

Q. A friend of mine is having an affair with

a semi-famous racing driver. Now she regularly accuses me in front of others of having leaked stories about this affair to the tabloids. This is not something I would do. For one thing, I write on financial matters for a serious publication. How can I shut her up?

Name and address withheld A. Smile patiently while your friend rants. Then explain to her that her unjust accusations show her unconscious need to draw the attention of others to her brief moment of tabloid fame. Then remain silent while she blusters.