18 DECEMBER 2004, Page 79

From John Humphrys Q. In my line of work I

often have to talk to politicians. Some of them are very unpleasant to me and it can be most hurtful. I am a rather timid person who dislikes confrontation. How should one deal with this?

A. Please explain these problems to your local GP who, although the waiting lists may be long, can probably get you on to an assertiveness training course.