She continued to argue that the Children and Young Persons
Act should be amended so that battery of a child could no longer be justified as lawful punishment. This would only, she argued, bring children the same protection from assault that adults already enjoy.
She went on to explain that this change to the law, according to Peter Carter QC, who drafted the amendment, would not create a new offence. It would only remove a cruel, outdated defence. And she also revealed that Mr Carter had assured her that the amendment, as drafted, would not result in increased prosecutions of parents for minor incidents.
Eh? At this point one has to blink and rub one's eyes. No wonder Labour refused to allow a free vote on the clause. Labour's Baroness Ashton told Baroness Finlay that her amendment, whether it removed a defence or created an offence, would lead to a ban on smacking, and that, furthermore, the DPP had advised her that 'even minor assaults would be criminalised'.
Which brings us to logical flaw and legal fudge in the lobby group's argument. If you're going to ban smacking, you have to go ahead and prosecute, too. You can't tell parents that they are criminals if they smack and in the same breath that you'll let them off if they're guilty of this crime. For that brings the law into disrepute.
So the upshot is, for now, that the amendment has been withdrawn — but only pour mietex sauter later in the year, when the Bill returns to the Commons. It's like the hunting Bill. These heavily funded campaigns, once they enter the body politic, are the ineradicable prions in the bloodstream of Westminster. They never go away.
In the meanwhile. I invite you to reflect on this — and I'm assuming that we all start from the same position, which is that violence towards children is abhorrent, and that the world would be a better place if no parent ever got cross, no child was ever naughty, and that the best way to deal with incessant or violent provocation on the part of a child was to sit said child on the 'naughty chair' or call a 'time out'.
But this is not the world we live in, and if this amendment is passed, all parents who decide, for whatever reason, that the best way to put a stop to a child's behaviour is a smack, or who regrettably lose their temper, will have committed a crime. And their children can report them to the police, and then they will be put on a list, and social services can be informed, and so on.
The change to the law will fundamentally change the legal relationship between a parent and a child, and will encourage children to believe — both at home and at school — that they have a right to behave as they please and no obligation to follow adult instruction or direction, just as children at school do not believe that they have any duty to respect the teachers standing in front of them.
Parents will have no choice but to use other methods. I'm not saying the naughty chair doesn't work, but in America it's no accident that the use of the behavioursuppressant drug Ritalin has soared as the frequency of 'spanking' has diminished. Meanwhile, the parents who hit their children with merry abandon will presumably continue to do so.
'I'm furious about it,' one mother of three (who preferred to remain anonymous) told me. 'I don't go about whacking my children, but I do believe a calm premeditated slap, given after a warning, can draw the line under particularly buggersome behaviour. If smacking was banned, I'd feel despair, and even more marginalised as a fairly strict old-fashioned parent than I am already.'
Look, being hit is never nice (I say that, but my husband's main complaint about his time at Eton is that he was never once beaten). As the antis say in the US, 'Spanking hurts everybody.' But let's not lose sight of the fact that verbal abuse and other punishments can be just as cruel and traumatic, as Lord Swinfen nostalgically told us last week. 'I remember some 50 years or so ago, I and two other boys being caught breaking the rules at school. Two of us were beaten, but the other one could not be beaten for medical reasons. That boy had to translate 1,000 lines from English into Latin. It took him days. In my view the punishment was very much heavier and harder than the three strokes of the cane that I had. In fact the strokes warmed me up on a cold winter's evening.'
That reminds me. To paraphrase Samuel Butler, sparing the rod does not always spoil the child. At prep school, the headmaster offered me the choice of the slipper or forgoing an exeat as my punishment for breaking into the tuck cupboard at night with a boy called Savile and stealing Mars Bars. (He reserved the golf club and Jokari bat for even more actionable offences.) I chose the slipper with glee.
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